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Kathy Soul's avatar

Narcissists don’t cope well with humiliation. When they feel exposed or out of control, they lash out, double down, escalate, and often resort to smear campaigns instead of self-reflection. That’s why, whenever he’s asked a question he doesn’t like, his instinct is to insult rather than answer.

At the same time, he’s telling reporters that Iran’s leadership has been wiped out, while his own VP is photographed shaking hands with them on the other side of the world. The contradiction doesn’t seem to matter, because he knows his supporters will accept whatever he says. Regardless if they do, he’s performing for his own audience - himself. And for anyone who believes him.

What’s more concerning is the sense that he simply doesn’t care anymore. He is at breaking point! If he believes he’s on the way out and has lost confidence within his own ranks, then humiliation becomes a trigger. And for someone like that, going quietly isn’t an option, as we saw in 2021.

He’s been made to look foolish by a country he dismisses through crude stereotypes. In reality, Iran has a highly educated population and strong literacy rates. Stronger than most countries. Yet he sent ill informed and uneducated representatives to a peace talk with seasoned, highly credentialed negotiators.

Now he’s also the target of widely shared Iranian LEGO satire videos, viewed by millions. Iranian Embassies are trolling him on X and ridiculing his posts on his own platform. The ridicule is global, and it’s relentless. And for someone driven by ego, that kind of public embarrassment is combustible. When narcissists feel cornered, they don’t step back, they push harder.

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I attach a lot of importance to your clear, principled, independent reporting. You and others like you play a huge role in keeping the truth alive in an increasingly authoritarian landscape, and I have now put my money where my mouth is and upgraded to a paid subscription on your Substack account.

Keep up the good work Heather and if you’re ever in Scotland you can have a drink on me.

PS: fingers crossed for the right result in Hungary today. I’m hoping that Vance’s show of support will be the kiss of death that Orban’s regime so richly deserves.

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