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Charlotte Firth's avatar

It’s a lovely picture Heather and nice to see you relaxed and smiling in flip flops in the sunshine.

Trump has a degenerate disease and in any other world he would be being cared for and looked after. Instead the bully that he is, he is manipulating everyone around him and being allowed to plummet USA into chaos.

Our very new untried Prime Minister Andy Burnham is set to meet Trump this week, I am watching this space. Straight speaking Northener who takes no prisoners should be interesting !

Also Mandani - Mr Trump this is the guy who is making headway in New York and not busy lining his pockets with gold and making a mess of his country’s finance or causing wars and guess what Mr Trump he is a Muslim. Not that this makes a difference to who he is, it’s just a good and wonderful man making a difference to peoples lives in New York !!

Janet Currie's avatar

Charlotte, fellow Brit here. I just hope that when Burnham meets Trump he will be just as straight talking with him. Here's hoping.

Heather's avatar

I think Mamdani is known to be a Democratic Socialist, isn’t he? Horror of horrors! I wonder if Trump will try to bully him? Will it be behind closed doors? I’d love to be a fly on the wall.

Charlotte Firth's avatar

Does it matter what sort of socialist you are? Surely just wanting better for the population, if you are a mixed party at the end of the day there is discussion and not dictatorship.

Heather's avatar

My “horror of horrors” comment was meant to signify Trump’s reaction.

Dave's avatar

Mandani is a smart man, all he has to do is say a couple flattering phrases about Trump & Trump will forever remember that & now like him/respect him forever.

Heather's avatar

OMG! I have second - hand acute embarrassment for the millions of Americans who are witnessing this madman do this stuff! Such a pity that the Republicans in Congress aren’t embarrassed and keep going along with this craziness!

Paul's avatar

Thank you, Heather, for sharing with us the emotional closeness of you, your husband, Pete, your daughters and dogs - it is as normal and natural as a family ought to be - and it highlights through contrast how cold and dark the pictures of family life are within the Trump family.

My professional work as an individual and family therapist has allowed me the unique privilege and honor to see the most personal of human emotions and experiences.

When you describe how DJT changed his planned weekend at Camp David abruptly and retreated to the golf links of his private club, how he eschews the advice and support of allies and advisers in favor of surrounding himself with folks like Natalie Harp and Steven Miller - it should give every American cause for concern.

Donald Trump reveals his character by the dishonesty of his words and the cruelty of his actions. When you have shared the emotional intimacy that is within your family, it makes me wonder, by contrast, how Melania must truly feel - as a woman who is married to this man.

Their mutual absence from each other speaks volumes of how a marriage should not be. The eyes are truly the windows to the soul - to our most inner thoughts and feelings.

We can see - and feel - the authenticity of another when they spontaneously share true emotions. Coupled with the intonations of their voice and their behaviors we know who a person is and the truth of who they are.

One does not need to be a professional therapist to know these things - they are well within the scope of normal, human relationships.

Trump has consistently shown he is not one to be trusted, and it truly is terrifying that he is entrusted with the safety and security of America and the World.

And when he rants and raves like a madman about obliterating an entire country and wiping out its citizens, we are frozen with fear - yet how must the Iranian people feel?

So, on the most human of levels, how does Donald Trump actually feel? We can only infer from his actions - and he is showing everyone that he is growing more and more desperate as he is losing control of so many areas of his life: His policies, his political career, his marriage, events in the Middle East, and he is losing control over who to blame for the troubles he is causing.

The majority of Republicans have squandered their opportunities to rein him in, his family is impotent, as are his military and political advisers - no one is capable of advising a person who places himself into being as a God.

And he is showing the World through his imagery - as you’ve so aptly described, Heather - and we are faced with a modern day version of Nero - who instead of playing the fiddle, he golfs by himself - while the World Order is collapsing…

Shelly Rellim M.'s avatar

Paul, great comment. So true.

I’m a psychology major almost sociology minor and worked with special ed. kids pre K-8.

Absolutely, “the eyes are the windows to the soul.” To be honest, I’m not sure the Nazi, fascist, eugenics, sociopath, narcissistic trump even has one, along with the EPSTEIN Class, and the RepubliKKKans, etc., if 5he others did, they sold it to make a deal with the devils.

Add to trump’s entire negative, sociopathic attributes, he is the MADMAN with accelerating Dementia with the NUCLEAR Codes…He MUST BE STOPPED.

WE the PEOPLE are NOT ANGRY enough.

Janine Bradburn's avatar

SPOT ON! Thank you, Paul, for getting it absolutely right.

Ginger's avatar

I am glad you continue to have hope. For me, that hope is hard to come by.

Lisa Alexander's avatar

You look casual, comfortable and very pretty. The Donald stuff? Just trying to not feel sick. Man, he’s getting worse all the time. Thanks (I think😳) for keeping us informed.

Richard Bernard's avatar

It happens that I was a private in the U.S. Army at Ft. Carson CO at the time President Kennedy addressed the nation about the Cuban Missile Crisis in October 1962,Along with a few others, I watched the Presidents speech on the Mess Sergeants small TV in his room at the barracks. Perhaps 15 miles away was Cheyenne Mountain, perhaps one of the main presumed strategic targets for any Soviet Missile Strike. I read about the speech the next day in the Rocky Mountain News. I was very much aware of the implications. Less than a year before I was simply a senior completing college. I had volunteered for the Draft, mostly just to get the military obligation piece out of the way.

I was just one young person in harms way. The mood of the country was very serious. The crisis was near over, but we didn't know that.

I still have a copy of the articles in the Rocky Mountain News of the following day....

Janine Bradburn's avatar

I was only seven during the Cuban Missile Crisis but I vividly remember the small black and white TV in the kitchen with the news on. The tone in the house was VERY somber and VERY serious as it played out. I remember it was the first time I witnessed my parents looking scared. It is a lasting memory I will always carry.

We were lucky, I felt, even at that young age looking back on it, that my parents always kept my older sister and I informed about what was happening in the country. It has fueled my intense interest and motivation to seek the truth. I am so happy to have found Substack and Independent media to keep me informed.

Carol H Shupek's avatar

I was in college at the time also, and we were all frightened, especially the men who were concerned about being drafted. You must have felt petrified, being in the middle of it in the Army.

Richard Bernard's avatar

I have a pdf of the Rocky Mountain News and will see if it transmits. It includes the articles in the newspaper the day after. /Users/dickbernard/Pictures/Cuba002.pdf

As for ourselves, we were in the Army, of course, and what we thought was pretty irrelevant at the time as the assorted units were being prepared for an as yet unknown possible deployment somewhere unknown. If you look at a map, Cuba was within range of Colorado (or vice versa) which most of us probably didn't even realize at the time.

Marcia Goodman-Blair's avatar

This is extremely disturbing.

TripleNana7's avatar

I wish you could see me, shaking my head in either disbelief or negative-sensory overload.

Paula Mutzel's avatar

He is a malignant narcissist with a brain that is being consumed by plaque more and more each day.

His filters are disappearing rapidly which makes him all the more dangerous and unpredictable.

He jumps from one extreme type of behavior to the next..he is not able to be cool and controlled under ANY kind of pressure let alone the types he faces as the leader of the most powerful democracy in the world.

He’s trying to show leadership capabilities with cartoon characters created by his handlers who are desperately trying to convince him he looks strong and powerful.

He is a JOKE.

He will make a total ass of himself this week on every front..he will attempt to be strong and in charge but he will show the world leaders the exact opposite and THERE is the DANGER .

He can’t hold a thought much less communicate one. That’s why he’s banned anyone who is not his sycophant..he can’t have the truth exposed now it’s too close to reckoning time.

They’ll have him pumped with medication to try and keep him focused and calm but it’s a delicate balance…the meds also make him tired and they can do nothing for his lack of understanding of the gravity of his job and his inability to perform it.

He is not capable of understanding that every word he speaks has meaning..utmost and extreme importance…CONSEQUENCES…that he is under the world’s microscope completely now.

That his rash behavior can no longer be tossed off as just trump being trump..we’re all on the precipice now …these leaders that he’s meeting with this week are more than aware of what’s happening….what could happen…what CANNOT happen.

To quote Bette Davis…” buckle your seatbelts…it’s going to be a bumpy night”…which is actually too mild a warning for what’s ahead..it’s going to be a nail biting..breath holding..fingers crossed..prayer sending week as our own version of a modern day Nero puts down his fiddle and does God only knows what.

Countdown clock is ticking.

V O T E. And pray we get through this.

Janine Bradburn's avatar

I think sometimes this is what the Stephen Millers, Mike Johnsons, Elon Musks, Steve Bannons and the other oligarchs want. He is listening to them. They whisper in his ear and give him permission.

His late night phone calls of, "What do you think I should do?" are well known and documented. When he is dead and gone, we still have them to deal with. All these people continue to work behind the scenes, as it were.

What to do about them??

Paula Mutzel's avatar

Absolutely what they're doing.. he's really now just the figurehead but he doesn't realize it. Hopefully the backlash against him will be so strong it will take them down too... they'll run out of oxygen.

dodaa's avatar

The foundations of anything is built from the ground up. The only news of rumps beginnings that I know of is his dodging his responsibilities to support the country during Vietnam. At that time, there was a draft. People were conscripted into the armed forces. Every young man was given a number and then called when their number came up. And when he got his number called, he hid behind daddy’s money. He built that foundation himself and thusly, he seems to have lived his life.

Unfortunately, we are all a part of his life now. But we still have a chance to dump him in the near future.

Katy Bolger's avatar

If I recall correctly, a young man could get a 4F designation from the Vietnam War draft if he went into his appointment wearing a dress and lipstick, or claimed bone spurs. Yep, that's right: homosexual or bone spurs.

Steve Molk's avatar

I am realizing that Trump’s main qualifications (?) to be President are as follows: 1) he inherited an incredible amount of money from his family, and 2) he starred in a second-rate TV reality show where his catchphrase was the incredibly rude “You’re fired”.

Janine Bradburn's avatar

Malcom X did specifically this.

Vanessa's avatar

Dear Heather,

Thank you for sharing your lovely photo, happy and smiling at Pete! What a relief for you both and your family.

As for you-know-who, one wonders what is going through his head, as he looks forward (!?) to meeting all those heads of state. Is it possible that he truly believes he has a respectable standing in our battered world? Will he push people out of the way like he has done before? A diplomat he is not! It will be interesting to witness the body language from the delegates!

He is so exhausting and exhausted, I imagine. I wonder what's keeping him going? And now he wants to build a big, beautiful military arch so that it will become the most sought after target in the world - he's completely bonkers!

After the trail of destruction he has left behind him, I wouldn't trust him to tighten a screw; he would loosen it and when the thing falls down, he would blame the screw. 🙄

Keep smiling Heather and us hoping!

Love from the UK.🇬🇧

ACG's avatar

Once again 47s tiny little fingers are itching to start a nuclear war . Read between the lines . First choice of three re Iran annihilate the country . The means one thing to this maniac. Same old Trump from 2015 with NBC “ we have nuclear bombs , why not use them ?” And that was a decade ago when he was just a malignant narcissist and NOT suffering from dementia . I pray I’m wrong 🙏

Shelly Rellim M.'s avatar

Agree and I hope we’re wrong, but…..

He NEEDS to be stopped…NOW.

Kathi's avatar

Great picture, Heather! Loving the smile!😊

Theresa Foxworth's avatar

Beautiful picture!

I'm afraid election results will not be accepted. If you can compare to Nixon. I know he didn't have the support Trump has with 'advisors'.

Thank you for keeping us informed!!

Sooz's avatar

What a lovely photo!! Keep up the amazing work you do for us.

Terry McConnell's avatar

I wonder if our hardworking congresspeople continue to draw their paychecks during this nice fall vacation they've given themselves. What a useless bunch of dorks! The country is facing mounting crises from every direction, and all they can do is shrug their collective shoulders and pretend it's somebody else's problem.